Ok, so that’s a gross exaggeration, but motherhood is definitely a tough job. It has the ability to make you a stronger person, both physically and mentally, but can be a bumpy ride along the way.

Let’s think about it. You get pregnant and endure enormous physical changes such as shifting organs and expanding skin. Then you go through labor, which is so painful it often requires you to numb your body just to get through it, no matter whether you’re pushing or the baby exits through the “trap door.”  Then there’s the emotional roller coaster otherwise known as the regulation of hormones, which isn’t so much hazardous to us as it is to our husbands! Next we have to learn to carry around a child that is getting bigger and heavier by the day (and sometimes seemingly by the hour). In addition to carrying the baby, we have to lug around heavy baby gear, such as car seats, strollers, and diaper bags filled to the brink. (I swear baby product manufacturers are making these products heavier every year, too). And for many of us, just when our body has gotten through that exhausting cycle, we start the cycle over again with another pregnancy! Therefore our body never seems to get a break or at least not for a good few years.

What prompted me to write this post was my visit to the doctor last month as my neck and shoulders had been aching and sore for a couple of weeks. While much of the cause is the cumulation of stress from the past 12 months (i.e. ovarian surgery while pregnant, pregnancy, and a postpartum depression episode), the physical stresses on the body that I just mentioned only exacerbated the problem. One painful back adjustment and deep tissue massage later and I am on my way back to having a body that doesn’t feel like it’s 90 years old. And while I know having a 2 year old and 3 month old will continue to require me to subject my body to more physical stress, it’s nothing that another 4-5 more adjustments can’t fix I guess!

This mother job not only requires the patience of a saint and mental capacity of a Mensa member, but it also apparently requires the physical strength of an Iron Man participant. Honestly, some days I feel like I don’t have any of those strengths, let alone all three. Being a mother taxes both your body and mind, but if the saying is true, then what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger, right?