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		<description><![CDATA[Children are naturally creative: Their napkins become hats, their drinks are magic potions, and ketchup turns into paint. But aside from being endlessly entertaining, creativity is also critical to their developing brains. Creative and artistic experiences help kids express their feelings and come up with new ideas and ways to solve problems. Studies show that involvement in the arts boosts test scores and promotes academic achievement across the board. <a href="http://momactive.com/2010/11/giving-your-kids-a-creative-edge/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<td>Ideas That Spark: Home Style</p>
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<p>By Aviva Patz</p>
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<p><a href="http://momactive.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/kids_creative.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1102 alignleft" title="kids_creative" src="http://momactive.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/kids_creative.jpg" alt="" width="120" height="150" /></a>Children are naturally creative: Their napkins become hats, their drinks are magic potions, and ketchup turns into paint. But aside from being endlessly entertaining, creativity is also critical to their developing brains. Creative and artistic experiences help kids express their feelings and come up with new ideas and ways to solve problems. Studies show that involvement in the arts boosts test scores and promotes academic achievement across the board.</p>
<p>These discoveries may explain why children’s art studios are popping up across the country, giving kids a chance to let their imaginations run wild with paint, clay,  and in the case of Make-a-Messterpiece in Glenview, Ill., even bubbles. In addition to private studios (such as KidsArt in California and Washington) and foundations (such as Creative Art Space for Kids in New York), many YMCA branches and local art museums offer art programs.</p>
<p>You can also get your child’s creative juices flowing at home with some very basic art supplies and the right attitude. Bring out the creative genius in your children with these simple tips.</p>
<p><strong>Start With a Blank Slate </strong><br />
Leave projects open-ended<strong> </strong>so kids are free to imagine the endless possibilities. For example, if you’re painting pumpkins, don’t paint one first as an example, because your kids are likely to try to copy it, quashing their creativity. Instead, simply give children paint and paintbrushes and let them begin. Keep in mind that there are no wrong ways to paint a pumpkin.</p>
<p><strong>Forget Perfection<br />
</strong>Focus on the creative process rather than the finished product. For example, your child may find tremendous fun and fulfillment in shaping, squishing, pounding and poking at clay for an hour &#8212; even if the end result is a shapeless lump.</p>
<p><strong>Don’t Mind the Mess</strong><br />
Art is not a neat business, and nothing stifles creativity faster than a wet mop or a dustpan underfoot. Let your child get dirty &#8212; that’s how she’ll learn to take risks. (Plus, it’s fun!) You can wipe up the glitter later.</p>
<p><strong>Mix It up</strong><br />
Spice up your at-home art projects by using different materials instead of the usual paint, felt, pipe cleaners and beads. Challenge your children to find art supplies in their environment: a sponge, chopsticks, gum wrappers, bottle caps and egg cartons, for example. Head outside and collect leaves, sticks, acorns and small pebbles. Supply children with glue and paper and give no other direction. Be ready for anything.</p>
<p><strong>Expose Them to Diversity </strong><br />
Take trips to museums and zoos; see plays and concerts; attend an African drumming circle, a Mexican fiesta, a Chinese New Year celebration. Every experience your children have with people or situations outside their normal routine widens their range of creative expression.</p>
<p><strong>Make Music </strong><br />
Encourage experimentation with musical instruments without showing how it’s done. Let her play piano with her toes or beat the drum with maracas if she wants. You can make your own instruments too. Dried beans in a toilet paper tube make a great shaker; waxed paper secured over a coffee can is a drum; rubber bands stretched over a shoebox make a guitar. Grab an instrument and play along for a fun family hootenanny.</p>
<p><strong>Allow for Unconventional Ideas</strong><br />
Thinking outside the box is what creativity is all about. When kids come up with a new way of doing things &#8212; making a sculpture out of plastic hangers, for instance &#8212; go with it (as long as it’s safe, of course). Your support will encourage more creative thinking and problem solving down the road.</td>
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<td>By Jessica Goldbogen Harlan for <em>Live Right Live Well</em></p>
<p><img class="alignleft" title="Get Your Kids to Eat Healthy" src="http://momactive.com//home/users/web/b1532/moo.banteringblonde//wp-content/uploads/HLIC/878dc212aea476dc6a663c53ada56792.jpg" alt="" width="181" height="212" />The next time you’re tempted by a bag of potato chips, check to see if your kids are around &#8212; because the old adage “do as I say, not as I do” doesn’t work when it comes to teaching children healthy eating habits.</p>
<p>In a recent study, 120 children, age 2 to 6 years, were invited to shop for play food in a play grocery store stocked with everything from fruits and vegetables to sodas and junk food. What did the kids purchase? The same stuff they see their parents buying and eating. “Parents need to be aware that the choices they make do have an impact on their kids, and kids start to learn food behaviors and patterns at a very early age,” says study leader Lisa Sutherland, Ph.D., of the Hood Center for Children and Families at Dartmouth College, in N.H. To raise a kid who grows up loving broccoli and whole grains, consider the following:</p>
<p><strong>Be a good role model </strong>As the study shows, kids will mirror your own eating habits. So let them see you eating whole-grain toast at breakfast, enjoying a piece of fruit for a snack and filling up on veggies at dinner. If you can’t give up your cookies and soda, try to eat them when the kids are in bed and keep them out of sight in your cupboard.</p>
<p><strong>Combine favorites with the unfamiliar</strong> “Don’t just always serve their favorite food,” advises Melinda Johnson, a registered dietitian and spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association. “At a meal, mix their favorites with what you’re trying to challenge them with.” And don’t give up after the first time your child rejects a food. “Don’t force them [to eat it], but keep offering it to them,” says Sutherland. “You might have to [offer] new things eight times before a kid will eat it.”</p>
<p><strong>Follow the “Rule of Three” </strong>At each meal, try to include at least three of the following food groups from the USDA food pyramid: grains, vegetables, fruits, milk, meat/beans. A snack can consist of two food groups.</p>
<p><strong>Make grocery shopping a fun learning experience</strong> Let young children pick out their favorite fruits; older kids can learn math concepts, like finding the best value or comparing nutrition labels.</p>
<p><strong>Involve kids in the kitchen</strong> Letting your children help with the cooking can give them a better understanding of food, notes Sutherland. Johnson agrees: “The more kids get involved, the more likely they’ll eat and appreciate the food once it shows up on their plate. Plus, you’re teaching them cooking skills.”</p>
<p><strong>Allow for occasional junk</strong> Insisting that your children eat only healthy foods can backfire, leading to lunch-swapping and overindulging when you’re out of sight. Instead, teach them a healthy balance by allowing them to have the occasional treat, even if it’s something that’s not good for them. Johnson recommends a blend of 90 percent relatively healthy food and 10 percent junk food and other treats.</p>
<p>So put away the potato chips and instead invite your child to the kitchen to help you prepare a healthy snack, such as whole-wheat pita with hummus and carrot sticks.“Your child isn’t going to end up eating better than you do,” says Johnson. So if you want him to eat well, “you have to eat the way you want your child to eat.” Not only will you both benefit today, but it will lay the groundwork for a lifetime of healthy eating for your child.</p>
<p class="ByLine"><strong>Jessica Goldbogen Harlan</strong> <em><strong>Jessica Goldbogen Harlan</strong></em><em> is an Atlanta-based writer and recipe developer specializing in nutrition and healthy eating. Jessica is the cooking equipment guide for About.com (online) and has written for numerous publications and Web sites, including</em> Pilates Style, Arthritis Today, Clean Eating,<em> Lime and iVillage.</em></p>
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<p>The next time you’re tempted by a bag of potato chips, check to see if your kids are around &#8212; because the old adage “do as I say, not as I do” doesn’t work when it comes to teaching children healthy eating habits.</p>
<p>In a recent study, 120 children, age 2 to 6 years, were invited to shop for play food in a play grocery store stocked with everything from fruits and vegetables to sodas and junk food. What did the kids purchase? The same stuff they see their parents buying and eating.</p>
<p>“Parents need to be aware that the choices they make do have an impact on their kids, and kids start to learn food behaviors and patterns at a very early age,” says study leader Lisa Sutherland, Ph.D., of the Hood Center for Children and Families at Dartmouth College, in N.H.</p>
<p>Melinda Johnson, a registered dietitian and spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association, agrees. “Your child isn’t going to end up eating better than you do,” she says. So if you want him to eat well, “you have to eat the way you want your child to eat.”</p>
<p>To raise a kid who grows up loving broccoli and whole grains, consider the following:</p>
<p><strong>Be a good role model </strong>As the study shows, kids will mirror your own eating habits. So let them see you eating whole-grain toast at breakfast, enjoying a piece of fruit for a snack and filling up on veggies at dinner. If you can’t give up your cookies and soda, try to eat them when the kids are in bed and keep them out of sight in your cupboard.</p>
<p><strong>Combine favorites with the unfamiliar</strong> “Don’t just always serve their favorite food,” advises Johnson. “At a meal, mix their favorites with what you’re trying to challenge them with.” And don’t give up after the first time your child rejects a food. “Don’t force them [to eat it], but keep offering it to them,” says Sutherland. “You might have to [offer] new things eight times before a kid will eat it.”</p>
<p><strong>Follow the “Rule of Three” </strong>At each meal, try to include at least three of the following food groups from the USDA food pyramid: grains, vegetables, fruits, milk, meat/beans. A snack can consist of two food groups.</p>
<p><strong>Make grocery shopping a fun learning experience</strong> Let young children pick out their favorite fruits; older kids can learn math concepts, like finding the best value or comparing nutrition labels.</p>
<p><strong>Involve kids in the kitchen</strong> Letting your children help with the cooking can give them a better understanding of food, notes Sutherland. Johnson agrees: “The more kids get involved, the more likely they’ll eat and appreciate the food once it shows up on their plate. Plus, you’re teaching them cooking skills.”</p>
<p><strong>Allow for occasional junk</strong> Insisting that your children eat only healthy foods can backfire, leading to lunch-swapping and overindulging when you’re out of sight. Instead, teach them a healthy balance by allowing them to have the occasional treat, even if it’s something that’s not good for them. Johnson recommends a blend of 90 percent relatively healthy food and 10 percent junk food and other treats.</p>
<p>So put away the potato chips and instead invite your child to the kitchen to help you prepare a healthy snack, such as whole-wheat pita with hummus and carrot sticks. Not only will you both benefit today, but it will lay the groundwork for a lifetime of healthy eating for your child.</p>
<p class="ByLine"><strong>Jessica Goldbogen Harlan</strong> <em><strong>Jessica Goldbogen Harlan</strong><em> is an Atlanta-based writer and recipe developer specializing in nutrition and healthy eating. Jessica is the cooking equipment guide for About.com (online) and has written for numerous publications and Web sites, including</em> Pilates Style, Arthritis Today, Clean Eating,<em> Lime and iVillage.</em></em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[No, no, no&#8230; not in the fun way. Don&#8217;t get all excited, folks. Now that I have your attention {hehehe} I want to encourage parents to have &#8220;the talk&#8221; with their children. I feel that too many parents are fooling &#8230; <a href="http://momactive.com/2010/01/lets-talk-about-sex-baby/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-738" title="birds-and-bees" src="http://momactive.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/birds-and-bees-150x150.jpg" alt="birds-and-bees" width="150" height="150" />No, no, no&#8230; not in the fun way. Don&#8217;t get all excited, folks. Now that I have your attention {hehehe} <strong>I want to encourage parents to have &#8220;the talk&#8221; with their children. </strong>I feel that too many parents are fooling themselves into thinking that talking with their children about sex is not appropriate at a young age. I beg to differ. <em>Children as young as 10 and 11 years old are having sex. </em>Yes, HAVING&#8230; not learning about&#8230; not asking about&#8230; not curious about&#8230; actually having it. There are children 11 and 12 years old who are mothers. No, I&#8217;m not kidding. <strong>Google it.</strong></p>
<p>No matter how you go about introducing the topic or exactly what information you present to your child(ren), keep in mind three essential things:</p>
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<li>When your child has questions, <em>don&#8217;t try to avoid answering them. </em>You don&#8217;t have to go into graphic detail, but give them the facts&#8230; and don&#8217;t speak to them in a way that sends the message that you are uncomfortable with their questions. Children pick up on those simple cues and will be hesitant to bring it up again. <em>You WANT them to be able to talk to you! </em>This way, you are in control of the information they receive and are more able to discredit myths and inaccuracies they may have already heard.</li>
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<li>You may not be able to control what your child does when they are out of your sight. As your children grow into adolescence, <em>they may make decisions that you disapprove of. </em>This should not keep you from being very clear about your expectations as well as your family&#8217;s belief system&#8230; but don&#8217;t stop there! Let them know why you feel the way you feel. <em>Reason with them and give them an argument which validates your wishes.</em></li>
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<p><strong>The more open you are with your child, the higher the chances are that your child will be more open with you. </strong>Discuss inappropriate touching. Discuss the ways boys try to take advantage of girls. Discuss how much pressure locker-room talk can put on young boys. Discuss peer pressure and how to stand firm despite it. <strong>Discuss confidence and reputation. </strong><em>Open the lines of communication early and they will remain open.</em> Talking to your child is one of the greatest gifts you can give them. You would be amazed at how much of a difference it makes in their lives just to hear you tell them definitively what is right and what is wrong &#8211; what is acceptable and what is not. They may shrug it off. <strong>They may seem to not want to hear it. </strong>But when it counts the most, your words will play in the back of their mind and could give them the strength they need at that critical point when they need to say, &#8220;<strong><em>NO</em></strong>!&#8221;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we had our second daughter, my husband and I quickly realized that we needed to continue to spend one on one time with each child to assure that they both felt engaged and important to us. After baby girl &#8230; <a href="http://momactive.com/2010/01/growing-relationships-and-keeping-in-touch-with-your-children/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-710" title="michele horne pic" src="http://momactive.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/michele-horne-pic-150x150.jpg" alt="michele horne pic" width="150" height="150" />When we had our second daughter, my husband and I quickly realized that we needed to continue to spend one on one time with each child to assure that they both felt engaged and important to us. After baby girl number three, we still hold this philosophy, but when the children outnumber the adults, it becomes very hard to attain this goal.</p>
<p>But we still work at it&#8230; every day. It is not that we need to make time with each of them big events. We don&#8217;t need to take them to an amusement park or to the zoo. But we do need to give each of them a few minutes separately every day. For instance, my husband reads the bedtime story to the four year old every night. That is 15 minutes of dedicated daddy time that she is guaranteed and look forward to.</p>
<p>Other dedicated times might be to sit with the nine year old as she practices her piano, encouraging her and giving her undivided attention. We make puzzles with them, color, dance, let one of them prepare dinner with me or breakfast with Daddy.</p>
<p>We do also take time to make dates with each of them also. Again, it need not be elaborate or expensive, but just some time away from the house and the other sisters. It might be a daddy/daughter movie date or a mommmy/daughter picnic. Really, even when they get to ride in the car without two other screaming kids, they feel much more attended to and special.</p>
<p>The other day, as my nine year old sat on the edge of the tub keeping me company while I scrubbed the floor, she said, &#8220;Mommy, I really like this.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;What?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Just sittin&#8217; here talking to you.&#8221;</p>
<p>Awww, she filled my heart. But that proves that it really is the little things, those few stole moments here and there that will make the difference in your child&#8217;s life and grow that bond that every parents wants with their children. Hey, maybe you can even get them to scrub the toilet while you are talking!</p>
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		<title>Cherish the Moments</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 17:21:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fiona Bryan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Holiday’s are stressful enough. Between dealing with family rifts, sniveling with neighbors over your mooning Santa on the rooftop, or debating how much you really want to spend on gifts for everyone – there is always something ridiculous to &#8230; <a href="http://momactive.com/2009/12/cherish-the-moments/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-480" title="matroska" src="http://momactive.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/matroska-150x150.jpg" alt="matroska" width="150" height="150" />The Holiday’s are stressful enough.</p>
<p>Between dealing with family rifts, sniveling with neighbors over your mooning Santa on the rooftop, or debating how much you <em>really</em> want to spend on gifts for everyone – there is always something ridiculous to deal with.</p>
<p>How about sitting back and taking it all in for once.</p>
<p>Seriously, do you recall seeing your child’s facial expression while?</p>
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<li>Turning      on the Christmas lights for the first, second, or third time?</li>
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<li>Playing      with the icky sticky cookie dough and dumping an excessive amount of      sprinkles on those sugar cookies?</li>
</ul>
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<li>Lighting      the Menorah during Hanukkah?</li>
</ul>
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<li>Waiting      in line forever to sit on Santa’s lap?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Building      a snowman during the first snowfall of the season?</li>
</ul>
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<li>Singing      carols even if you do not know the words, while sipping on hot cocoa or      apple cider?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> Opening up presents <em>EARLY</em> Christmas morning?</li>
</ul>
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<li>Watching      them interact with their grandparents – 10 to 20 times their age?</li>
</ul>
<p>The list could go on and on…</p>
<p>Put the credit cards away, set the camcorders aside.  Be involved.  Be around.  Be active!</p>
<p>The moments you remember now, they will cherish at your age.</p>
<p>Peas Out!</p>
<p>~daddy b.</p>
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