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Healthy Habits – Start Young!

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photo_8409_20090922Healthy children are healthy because of the practices of their parents. However, healthy children don’t always grow into healthy adults. As humans, we are creatures of habit… Emotional health, mental health, spiritual health, and physical health all tie into the development of healthy habits. Many parents tend to do so much for their children that they inadvertently prevent their children from developing good habits themselves.

As parents, personally living a life full of healthy habits is essential because our children learn a great deal from watching us – example is a major educator for children! To take the example we set and transform it into a course of action habitually executed by our kids requires conditioning them to make good decisions regarding things that directly influence or affect their health. Here are a few tips to aid you in assisting your child in developing health-conscious habits:

  1. Rather than providing only healthy options to your children, start presenting them with several options and allowing them to choose for themselves. If they make an unhealthy selection, explain to them why the alternative is better for them. This helps them to understand the difference between healthy and unhealthy as well as why making good choices for themselves is important.
  2. Purposely set good examples for them. Go out of your way to ensure that they actually see you make healthy decisions. This will provide you with a great point of reference for discussions with your child later.
  3. Don’t make a huge deal about it when your child doesn’t make good decisions unless the situation warrants a major scene {like if your child exhibits actions that could potentially be detrimental to themselves or someone else}. However, go overboard with kudos when they make the right choices. Getting much more attention when they do something positive encourages them to continue doing so.
  4. Be sure to recognize things they may not even think about. When they react calmly to a situation that you know upset them, let your children know you noticed how well they processed their emotions. Make them proud to possess a high level of emotional strength! If they choose a banana over a piece of chocolate… or commend them for remembering each night to say their prayers on their own… Give them subtle encouragement to continue doing things to develop positive habits which contribute to their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health.

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What ways do YOU help your children develop healthy habits they will carry throughout their lives?

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Defining Moments

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869211_swimmerScenario one: You don’t have time to work out.

Scenario two: You miraculously find the time. But you have no energy whatsoever. Because let’s face it, you’re being pulled in a thousand directions between your kids, sick husband, extended family visiting, the shopping, the cooking, the baking, the sewing blankets until 1 in the morning only to get up at 5:30 in the morning to stand in line at Toys R Us for a Zhu Zhu Pet. (Oh wait. That last part was me?)

So what’s a supermom or superdad to do?

Make the time. Go anyway. Because there are defining moments in your life just waiting to be had.

For me, some of the best workouts are the ones I didn’t even want to do in the first place. The ones I wasn’t in the mood for. The ones that I may or may not have worn two different sneakers to by accident. (Yes, I’ve done it. I almost left the gym when I realized the embarrassment of having two different shoes on, but I stayed anyway and had an incredible workout. I knew my feet felt funny in the car for some reason!)

Last week, I needed to swim. I am doing a triathlon in the spring and even though my “training” hasn’t officially begun yet, I still have to get in my workouts. But I had a raging headache. I was tired. I was so NOT in the mood.

I got into the locker room, I put on my bathing suit, wrapped my towel around me, grabbed my cap and goggles and schlepped out to the pool.

I sat on the poolside with my feet in the water for about 20 minutes. Just staring off into space. I wanted to decompress for a minute. I wanted to will my headache away.

I was alone. I watched the jets push water up and swirl around the surface of the pool and I watched the reflection of the trees outside the window dance on top of the water.

I breathed deeply. I kicked my feet around a little, letting my feet get used to the temperature.

One of the trainers walked in through the pool area twice. I must have looked silly staring off into space but I didn’t care. I was in my own head.

For a few minutes I began to think about the length of the pool and how many lengths of it would take me the distance in the ocean that I would eventually be traveling.

I pictured myself and then I pictured lining up each lap into one long straight line. Dozens of pools one after another.

I pictured myself a few months ago struggling just to swim a few laps. Now I can swim at least 30 and feel like I can keep going.

I emptied my mind, put on my cap and goggles and got into the water and began to swim. My head felt better. I was calm.

A few laps in, that fire started to grow. My strokes got longer and faster, and my breathing changed. Up until then, I was normally breathing out under water gradually. Instead, I spent a few laps completely clearing my lungs under water and making room for even more air when I came up for a breath and my swimming got faster.

I was starting to build momentum and it was becoming a pain to have to stop at the lap and turn around. I began to get excited at the thought of building momentum on the swim, because that meant I would be able to swim in the open water faster than I would with all these stops. I could feel my body pushing through the water with momentum, with actual force behind me while my arms pulled me through the water. For the first time ever, I felt the energy of my body’s physics.

And to think, I almost poo-pooed this workout. I almost scrapped it on account of my day, my head and my body.

I did it anyway and it ended up being a “breakthrough” workout. One where I completely changed how I did things and made myself better.

The journey through healthy living and weight-loss is full of breakthroughs and defining moments. And for me, this was  just one of them. No, not every workout will carry a defining moment. But if you don’t go, you’ll never know what you missed.

The workouts I scrap? I now wonder what could have been.

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Staying Motivated in the (BRRRR!) Cold

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I was going through a fitness chat forum this week and one person’s comment caught my eye. The person wrote, “I’ve gained 10 pounds already since the cold weather started!” I could just see the sadness and pleading for help in that comment and I wished so very much to reach through my laptop and hug them.

I mean, gah! 10 pounds!? Winter doesn’t even begin for another couple of weeks!

After my own fear dissipated, all I could think of when I read that was just how easy that actually is!

It all starts with Thanksgiving week and if you were honored to be the cook this year, then it, too, means days afterward of all the leftovers you’re blessed to have still sitting in your fridge. (I have a version of the Thanksgiving sandwich that looks something like the actual Thanksgiving dinner itself sandwiched between two pieces of bread that  I am pretty sure that does nothing to help my thigh region. Thankfully this post comes after you’ve probably thrown away your leftovers, so I’m not giving you any ideas!)

Then it’s onto the Holiday Party where the cheese cube usually makes its entrance. I thought I was being so very healthy last year filling up my plate with cheese cubes, but little did I know those tasty, tiny, cute little nuggets were 1,000 calories on my plate (and that was only for a few of them!) and I hadn’t even gotten to the buffet part of the dinner yet!

Then with all of that holiday hustle and bustle, there’s no time to work out. I mean, how does one plan and attend all these holiday parties, festivities (and in my case 4 birthday parties!), inevitably get a cold or flu, go shopping, eat healthy AND find the time or more importantly, the motivation to exercise?

In the face of such adversity, how can we possibly expect ourselves to stay on track?!

Yes, it’s downright hard, but if you don’t want to have to undo all of that holiday mess on January 1st, here are some tips to stay motivated.

1. Set some lofty goals for the spring. No, you probably will not be an Olympian by springtime, but you can keep your eyes focused on a goal and get ready for it, even in the winter months. All you have to do is use your feet andget some warm clothing or have access to a treadmill. Find a race in your area for sometime in February, March or April and start training for it! There are running plans all over the internet for people of every exercise level. If you don’t run, there are challenging fitness games for game systems like the Wii. Having your eye on a goal will give you that little extra push to get out the door or pass on that doublefudgecheesecake-extravaganza, with whipped cream.

2. And speaking of Olympics, did you know that the Winter Olympics begins in February? When the Summer Olympics was on, I had just begun my fitness journey and watching Michael Phelps and the amazing Dara Torres inspired me to keep focused on my little ol’ goals (I mean, they didn’t get to the Olympics by eating fattyfriednesses or complaining about working out, right? I know, I know, they have sponsors and trainers and all of that, but they did have to start somewhere!) Find some inspiring videos like the 2010 Olympics to watch, or a DVD about the Ironman World Championships which follows the tough roads and challenges the athletes had to face to get there, or watch Lance in an old Tour de France, anything that might fuel the fire. (I know someone who has to watch Rocky to get pumped up, so to each his/her own!) And while you’re at it, update your workout playlist (a little Eye of the Tiger, maybe, or perhaps a little “Lose Yourself” by Eminem…)

3. It’s that time of year when people are in a giving mood, so when they ask, tell them you need some new cold weather gear! Don’t let cold weather keep you inside; get some new gloves, running tights, sweatshirts, windbreakers, and gear specifically made to keep all your heat in. Plus, everyone feels better about working out when they have some cool new duds on!

4. Somewhere in your home, create a Wall of Motivation. Post inspiring and motivational quotes and stickers, “before” pictures, pictures of athletes, anything that moves you to keep going. Mine is a cork board on the back of my bedroom door, so every time I leave my bedroom, I see a picture of Chrissie Wellington, three-time Ironman Champion! Gosh she’s ripped. I love her.

5. As I always say, there’s safety in numbers! Connect with other moms on Twitter, forums like the one here at MomActive, find a running group or running partner in your area or virtual group of people who are trying to stay motivated together. The more people who are in the same boat with you, the easier it will be to dig deep and find your motivation this season.

6. Finally, make today your New Year’s Day. Every January 2nd, you walk into the gym and all the treadmills and ellipticals are taken. That’s because everyone is starting on their “new me”. They are all feeling guilty for what hath transpired during the holidays and they all waited until after they packed it on to start moving. They’ve all made resolutions that this will finally be their year. (And I truly hope it is!) But don’t wait until January. Go now. Make the time. You still have about four weeks left to get a jump on all the gym-crashers. Besides, starting now will help you battle the holiday bulge and some of those indiscretions, and it will give you that much-needed “me-time” you need in between all of the holiday madness.

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